When I made my mind to write for my blog today, the first thing which struck me was Steve Jobs video which I saw very recently. It was delivered to the students of Stanford University in the year of 2005. After watching that video, I was so obsessed with his thoughts and started reading about him. But that is not the one I am going to share about. I carefully noticed one phenomenon that every leader comes across – ‘The Setback’.
When you try to plot a xy graph, with life on x-axis and time on y-axis, the slope of the curve traced will not always be positive. And the negative ones are called depressions. So does every graph have negative slope or is there anyone only with the rising curve? To prove it more colorfully, Cinemas give a brighter insight into the truth. Almost every hero, presumably 99.9999% experience hardships exactly at the half time and score a goal at the last minute by knocking the villain down. Trust me, figuratively and vividly, it is so true!
One thing which you must always remember is that they do not come with prior notifications. They are not anticipated, just one more example of a beautiful idiom- bolt from the blue. Please do not try to control them and end up yourself in a land of frustration. Take a business model for example, whenever a product is launched, they also mark it with the period of decline so that they reinvent themselves. And why don’t we do it? Well, if you want to cite the reasons- we are very scared and we are not sure of getting back into the track. Hiding yourself in those periods is definitely a wrong action.
But ironically, you need to live yourself in those drastic times; be your best at every second and make your confidence grow high. “Do what you like “says Jobs, He was thrown out of Apple once and he is not a failure, instead he is called as ‘Henry Ford of the modern period’. Imagine you are fired from the company you started, that is the most dreadful dream one could surpass. But Jobs lived it and that too in a more passionate way – he started another company which suited his interest and grasped his passion. Not just in the case of Jobs, but also almost every successful person was definitely once a victim of this natural phenomenon. By the way, I call it as natural because it is mandatory for everyone; everyone around us is an example. So what is the difference between you and Jobs?
Most of them say it as ‘the rejuvenation’, to put it simple it is ‘the bounce back’ and technically it is ‘the resilience’. The bounce back must be big; both in terms of size and confidence, and the work out must be hard for it to happen. When there is a setback, there is always a lesson for us to read. The lesson of enlightenment, it may be cracked down by analyzing how the setback happened. But just don’t go straight to seek a lesson, you cannot obviously. Because you will be suffering from a weak heart and it will not be ready to cope up with your mind. So make your heart strong and bold and the only way to do so is doing things which you would like to. May be for hours, days or weeks, the time really doesn't matter.
Then just hook up to basics, find what went wrong and make sure that you never repeat it. Take time to plan the near future, flexibly strong and you will come out with a power that you have never seen. It is a fresh idea, a fresh world, a fresh beginning and eventually you will be fresh too. When days pass on, you will realize that the setback (along with the bounce back) made you more tougher, more stronger and more happier.
Now in contrary to the graph which we first plotted, now plot a graph with power on y-axis and time on x-axis. What would I wish to see in your graph is a positive slope straight line and yes, you will also love it!!!